After years of chasing external validation from others , constantly feeling void within myself , having to wait for approval from friends and family , I have finally reached a point where no one opinions of me is valid , other then me simply because so one is me . Validation is underrated form of love , which shall not be hold back from anyone . Validation has two types that is Internal and External validation . External validation refers to relying on others' opinions, compliments, or social media likes to determine one's value or worth , where as Internal validation refers to confirming your own beliefs and action through self reflection and understanding . Key to conquer self love is "INTERNAL VALIDATION ".
After understanding validation and its types i realized that validation comes from within . Other peoples opinion of me is just a opinion and not a fact , so why would i give my attention and energy to that in the first place . When you master the art of internal validation , then finally you can love , understand and treat yourself with kindness for a very simple reason the way you treat yourself is the way others will treat you , its just a reflection of your thoughts and beliefs that is projected back to you by universe .So every morning you wake up remind yourself that validation is the constant decision that you make to remind yourself , of how healthy , hot , cool , elegant and beautiful are you as an being .
Hot girl tip : Tell yourself everything you wanna hear , Tell yourself that you that bitch and make that clear .
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