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What I Wish Someone Told Me When I Was Hurting

 

This one’s close to my heart.
I know what it feels like to hurt—to feel helpless, confused, and alone.
I’ve been there, and if you are too… this is for you.

Here are 10 gentle truths I wish someone whispered to me when I was breaking:

1. It’s okay to cry.
Crying doesn’t make you weak—it helps you release.

2. Whatever you're feeling is valid.
There’s no such thing as "too sensitive" or "overreacting." Your emotions matter.

3. Stop seeking external validation.
What others think is a reflection of them—not of your worth.

4. It’s okay if you don’t have everything figured out.
Life unfolds in layers. Trust that clarity will come.

5. You have more silent admirers than you know.
Some people are watching, learning, and being inspired by you quietly.

6. Trust the process.
You’re not behind—you’re right on time.

7. You are already complete.
You don’t need fixing—you just need healing.

8. You owe yourself love, kindness, and appreciation.
Be as gentle with yourself as you are with others.

9. Every heartbreak carries a hidden blessing.
Pain often plants the seeds of power.

10. God wouldn’t give you a heavy battle if He didn’t place deep strength within you.
You are stronger than you think. This won’t break you—it will build you.

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